SuaraDemokrasi-Malaysia: Solat Hajat ?? Perlukah?...

SuaraDemokrasi-Malaysia: Solat Hajat ?? Perlukah?...

ANTARA BOB LOKMAN DAN DATUK ESKAY

BOB LOKMAN

Harakahdaily: Apa yang menyebabkan saudara Bob terdorong untuk memilih dan menyertai PAS?

Bob Lokman: Sebab saya rasa ada masalah dengan sistem kehidupan. Saya nak mendidik anak saya dengan jalan Islam tetapi dia ada masalah dengan sistem persekolahan, sistem pergaulan, dan sistem masyarakat.

Bila saya di rumah suruh dia sembahyang, di luar ada kumpulan yang suruh dia buat benda lagha. Masa saya muda dulu saya tak sedar, dan itu berlaku pada anak saya sekarang, dan sekarang sara rasa tanggungjawab pada anak.

Tengok anak kita tidak menjadikan Allah nombor satu… dia duk ikut ‘rakyat didahulukan pencapaian diutamakan’, pada hal Allah nombor satu, takwa diutamakan tapi anak-kita tak tahu.

Harakahdaily: Jadi adakah faktor anak saudara itu yang telah mendorong saudara menyertai PAS?

Bob Lokman: Ya…Saya selalu merasa saya gagal mendidik anak saya dan rasa saya akan masuk neraka. Kerana itu saya rasa tidak ada tempat nak mintak bantuan, saya masuk PAS ini saya rasa ada jemaah yang boleh membawa saya ke jalan yang betul.Mengakkan Islam itu adalah wajib, kalau saya tak terlibat, harapkan orang lain berjuang, apa akan jadi dengan anak saya nanti.

DATUK ESKAY

“Kenapa Dato’ tak dedahkan ini lebih awal?”, tanya seorang tetamu yang hadir.

“Apa bukti saya nak sokong dakwaan saya?” pantas jawapan Eskay. “Tetapi bila saya dapat video ini, bukti itu (seolah di anugerahkan Allah) diberi kepada saya”.

Eskay yakin semua ini adalah petunjuk dari Allah s.w.t. Sebelum ini Eskay yang dibawa pulang ke Malaysia bagi membantu proses pemulihan Anwar setelah kemalangan terjatuh dari kuda, pernah mendakwa kepada para wartawan, ‘enough is enough’ dan tidak mahu lagi dipergunakan oleh Anwar. Eskay mengerjakan Haji pada tahun 2010 merasakan ini adalah jawapan dari Allah s.w.t.

“Saya mahu semua orang tahu. Saya tidak minat politik dan saya rakan karib Anwar. (Dari satu sudut) Saya lihat kehadiran Anwar dalam politik Malaysia, bagus untuk check and balance. Saya bukan ahli UMNO dan mana-mana parti pun. Tetapi saya suka bila pembangkang kuat, supaya kepentingan rakyat terjaga”

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VIDEO SEKS (DI DALAM TABIE BUKAN LUAR TABIE). ANWAR IBRAHIM MEMANG ADA ALIBI.

ANWAR IBRAHIM MEMANG ADA ALIBI.

Definitions of alibi

An alibi is a type of defence found in legal proceedings by demonstrating that the defendant was not in the place where an alleged offence was committed. There may be legal ramifications for not disclosing a true alibi defence, as well as penalties for providing a false alibi.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alibi

Definisi alibi - Kamus

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alibi. bukti atau keterangan (bahawa seseorang yang dituduh itu) berada di tempat lain ketika berlaku sesuatu perbuatan jenayah ...
dict.rewaz.org/search/browse/ali

Walaupun kita sudah tahu siapa dia Dato’ T tetapi masih ada lagi beberapa perkara yang meragukan di sini. Kalau Dato’ Eskay sememangnya seorang kawan baik DSAI, dan berada di tempat kejadian sudah semestinya beliau tahu apa yang DSAI buat.

Membeli betik ditengah hari

Setelah makan rasanya tawar

Kalau tuan bijak bistari

Siapa ALIBI untuk Anwar?

Pilihan jawapan seperti berikut :

A. Datuk Eskay

B. Wan Azizah

C. Nurul Izzah

D. Azmin Ali

E. Datuk Johari

F. China Doll Pelacur tu ler

SEXUAL ADDICTION

The term "sexual addiction" is used to describe the behavior of a person who has an unusually intense sex drive or an obsession with sex. Sex and the thought of sex tend to dominate the sex addict's thinking, making it difficult to work or engage in healthy personal relationships.

Sex addicts engage in distorted thinking, often rationalizing and justifying their behavior and blaming others for problems. They generally deny they have a problem and make excuses for their actions.

Sexual addiction also is associated with risk-taking. A person with a sex addiction engages in various forms of sexual activity, despite the potential for negative and/or dangerous consequences. In addition to damaging the addict's relationships and interfering with his or her work and social life, a sexual addiction also puts the person at risk for emotional and physical injury.

(PETIKAN DARI http://www.medicinenet.com/sexual_addiction/article.htm )

For some people, the sex addiction progresses to involve illegal activities, such as exhibitionism (exposing oneself in public), making obscene phone calls, or molestation. However, it should be noted that sex addicts do not necessarily become sex offenders.


Behaviors associated with sexual addiction include:

Compulsive masturbation (self-stimulation)


Multiple affairs (extra-marital affairs)


Multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one-night stands


Consistent use of pornography


Unsafe sex


Phone or computer sex (cybersex)


Prostitution or use of prostitutes


Exhibitionism


Obsessive dating through personal ads


Voyeurism (watching others) and/or stalking


Sexual harassment


Molestation/rape
Generally, a person with a sex addiction gains little satisfaction from the sexual activity and forms no emotional bond with his or her sex partners. In addition, the problem of sex addiction often leads to feelings of guilt and shame. A sex addict also feels a lack of control over the behavior, despite negative consequences (financial, health, social, and emotional)

PETIKAN DARI http://www.medicinenet.com/sexual_addiction/article.htm

SEXUAL ADDICTION

The term "sexual addiction" is used to describe the behavior of a person who has an unusually intense sex drive or an obsession with sex. Sex and the thought of sex tend to dominate the sex addict's thinking, making it difficult to work or engage in healthy personal relationships.

Sex addicts engage in distorted thinking, often rationalizing and justifying their behavior and blaming others for problems. They generally deny they have a problem and make excuses for their actions.

Sexual addiction also is associated with risk-taking. A person with a sex addiction engages in various forms of sexual activity, despite the potential for negative and/or dangerous consequences. In addition to damaging the addict's relationships and interfering with his or her work and social life, a sexual addiction also puts the person at risk for emotional and physical injury.

(PETIKAN DARI http://www.medicinenet.com/sexual_addiction/article.htm )

For some people, the sex addiction progresses to involve illegal activities, such as exhibitionism (exposing oneself in public), making obscene phone calls, or molestation. However, it should be noted that sex addicts do not necessarily become sex offenders.


Behaviors associated with sexual addiction include:

Compulsive masturbation (self-stimulation)


Multiple affairs (extra-marital affairs)


Multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one-night stands


Consistent use of pornography


Unsafe sex


Phone or computer sex (cybersex)


Prostitution or use of prostitutes


Exhibitionism


Obsessive dating through personal ads


Voyeurism (watching others) and/or stalking


Sexual harassment


Molestation/rape
Generally, a person with a sex addiction gains little satisfaction from the sexual activity and forms no emotional bond with his or her sex partners. In addition, the problem of sex addiction often leads to feelings of guilt and shame. A sex addict also feels a lack of control over the behavior, despite negative consequences (financial, health, social, and emotional)

PETIKAN DARI http://www.medicinenet.com/sexual_addiction/article.htm

SURAH AL'ASR, 3 AYAT (JAM OMEGA 3 PELAPOR

TERJEMAHAN SURAH AL ’ASR
(MASA)
SURAH INI DITURUNKAN DI MEKAH DAN MENGANDUNGI 3 AYAT.

Dengan nama Allah yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang.

1.Demi masa
2.Sesungguhnya manusia itu dalam kerugian
3.Kecuali orang-orang yang beriman dan beramal soleh dan berpesan (nasihat menasihati) dengan kebenaran dan berpesan dengan kesabaran.

KETERANGAN SURAH AL ’ASR

Semua manusia dalam kerugian, kecuali orang-orang yang beriman teguh dan beramal soleh, serta suka nasihat menasihati tentang kebenaran serta kesabaran. Orang yang soleh sentiasa menjaga baik hubungan sesama manusia serta hubungan dengan Allah swt. Masa yang berlalu diisi dengan perkara yang berfaedah tanpa membazirkan perkara dengan perbuatan yang sia-sia. Pendek kata sentiasa mengikuti apa yang diperintahkan olehNya dan meninggalkan apa yang dilarang olehNya.

Sesuatu yang menarik berkaitan surah ini ialah berkaitan dengan masa. Masa yang kita ada didalam hayat ini sepatutnya digunakan untuk menunaikan perintah-perintah Allah dan menjadi seorang yang beriman. Marilah kita menjadi orang yang beriman dan orang yang sabar serta saling mengingati antara satu sama lain ke arah kebaikan.

Kebetulan pula jam omega menjadi tajuk hangat saat ini akibat pendedahan 3 datuk. Jam sangat sinonim dengan masa. tapi apabila masa itu dihilangkan atau dilupakan maka terimalah bahananya. Dalam apa keadaan jangan sesekali lupakan jam atau masa tambah pula nilai jam omega itu belasan ribu ringgit, tapi masa adalah tidak ternilai oleh kita harganya. Jam itu pula boleh diperolehi DNA darinya melalui daki atau peluh pada jam itu. Lagi satu hal pulani.

Kebetulan 3 datuk pula yang mendedahkan perkara ini. Semacam satu kebetulan pula dengan jumlah ayat tersebut. Apakah tujuan mereka untuk menasihati atau berpesan kepada seseorang atau tujuan lain hanya Allah SWT maha mengetahui. Tapi tempoh seminggu yang diberikan kiranya boleh diterima untuk memberi amaran kepada pelaku seseorang yang bukan sahaja melanggar tata susila sebagai seorang Melayu malah melanggar hukum agama Islam yang dianutinya.

Pesan sudah, nasihat sudah, amaran pun sudah. Laporan polis juga yang dipilih maka terimalah balasannya nanti jika tersebar seantero maya.

* Moral of the story : jangan buka jam di mana saja anda berada atau apa saja yang anda lakukan ataupun jangan pakai jam langsung.

denial syndrome

Denial is a defense mechanism postulated by Sigmund Freud, in which a person is faced with a fact that is too uncomfortable to accept and rejects it instead, insisting that it is not true despite what may be overwhelming evidence. ^[1] The subject may use:

• simple denial - deny the reality of the unpleasant fact altogether
• minimisation - admit the fact but deny its seriousness (a combination of denial and rationalisation)
• projection - admit both the fact and seriousness but deny responsibility.

The concept of denial is particularly important to the study of addiction. The theory of denial was first researched seriously by Anna Freud. She classified denial as a mechanism of the immature mind, because it conflicts with the ability to learn from and cope with reality. Where denial occurs in mature minds, it is most often associated with death, dying and rape. More recent research has significantly expanded the scope and utility of the concept. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross used denial as the first of five stages in the psychology of a dying patient, and the idea has been extended to include the reactions of survivors to news of a death. Thus, when parents are informed of the death of a child, their first reaction is often of the form, "No! You must have the wrong house, you can't mean our child!"^{[citation needed]}

Unlike some other defense mechanisms postulated by psychoanalytic theory (for instance, repression), the general existence of denial is fairly easy to verify, even for non-specialists. On the other hand, denial is one of the most controversial defense mechanisms, since it can be easily used to create unfalsifiable theories: anything the subject says or does that appears to disprove the interpreter's theory is explained, not as evidence that the interpreter's theory is wrong, but as the subject's being "in denial". However, researchers note that in some cases of corroborated child sexual abuse, the victims sometimes make a series of partial confessions and recantations as they struggle with their own denial and the denial of abusers or family members.^[2]

The concept of denial is important in twelve-step programs, where the abandonment or reversal of denial forms the basis of the first, fourth, fifth, eighth and tenth steps. The ability to deny or minimize is an essential part of what enables an addict to continue his or her behavior despite evidence that - to an outsider - appears overwhelming. This is cited as one of the reasons that compulsion is seldom effective in treating addiction — the habit of denial remains.

Understanding and avoiding denial is also important in the treatment of various diseases. The American Heart Association cites denial as a principal reason that treatment of a heart attack is delayed. Because the symptoms are so varied, and often have other potential explanations, the opportunity exists for the patient to deny the emergency, often with fatal consequences. It is common for patients to delay mammograms or other tests because of a fear of cancer, even though this is clearly maladaptive. It is the responsibility of the care team, and of the nursing staff in particular, to train at-risk patients to avoid such behavior.

Types of Denial

[edit]Denial of fact

In this form of denial, someone avoids a fact by lying. This lying can take the form of an outright falsehood (commission), leaving out certain details to tailor a story (omission), or by falsely agreeing to something (assent, also referred to as "yessing" behavior). Someone who is in denial of fact is typically using lies to avoid facts they think may be painful to themselves or others.

[edit]Denial of responsibility

This form of denial involves avoiding personal responsibility by:

• blaming - a direct statement shifting culpability and may overlap with denial of fact
• minimizing - an attempt to make the effects or results of an action appear to be less harmful than they may actually be, or
• justifying - when someone takes a choice and attempts to make that choice look okay due to their perception of what is "right" in a situation.

Someone using denial of responsibility is usually attempting to avoid potential harm or pain by shifting attention away from themselves.

For example:

Troy breaks up with his girlfriend because he is unable to control his anger, and then blames her for everything that ever happened.

[edit]Denial of impact

Denial of impact involves a person's avoiding thinking about or understanding the harms his or her behavior has caused to self or others, i.e. denial of the consequences. Doing this enables that person to avoid feeling a sense of guilt and it can prevent him or her from developing remorse or empathy for others. Denial of impact reduces or eliminates a sense of pain or harm from poor decisions.

[edit]Denial of awareness

This type of denial is best discussed by looking at the concept of state dependent learning.^[3] People using this type of denial will avoid pain and harm by stating they were in a different state of awareness (such as alcohol or drug intoxication or on occasion mental health related). This type of denial often overlaps with denial of responsibility.

[edit]Denial of cycle

Many who use this type of denial will say things such as, "it just happened." Denial of cycle is where a person avoids looking at their decisions leading up to an event or does not consider their pattern of decision making and how harmful behavior is repeated. The pain and harm being avoided by this type of denial is more of the effort needed to change the focus from a singular event to looking at preceding events. It can also serve as a way to blame or justify behavior (see above).

[edit]Denial of denial

This can be a difficult concept for many people to identify with in themselves, but is a major barrier to changing hurtful behaviors. Denial of denial involves thoughts, actions and behaviors which bolster confidence that nothing needs to be changed in one's personal behavior. This form of denial typically overlaps with all of the other forms of denial, but involves more self-delusion.

[edit]DARVO

See also: Victim blaming

Harassment covers a wide range of offensive behaviour. It is commonly understood as behaviour intended to disturb or upset. In the legal sense, it is behaviour which is found threatening or disturbing.

DARVO is an acronym to describe a common strategy of abusers: Deny the abuse, then Attack the victim for attempting to make them accountable for their offense, thereby Reversing Victim and Offender.

Psychologist Jennifer Freyd^[4] writes:

"...I have observed that actual abusers threaten, bully and make a nightmare for anyone who holds them accountable or asks them to change their abusive behavior. This attack, intended to chill and terrify, typically includes threats of law suits, overt and covert attacks on the whistle-blower's credibility, and so on. The attack will often take the form of focusing on ridiculing the person who attempts to hold the offender accountable. [...] [T]he offender rapidly creates the impression that the abuser is the wronged one, while the victim or concerned observer is the offender. Figure and ground are completely reversed. [...] The offender is on the offense and the person attempting to hold the offender accountable is put on the defense." [1]

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